A British couple has shared how swinging changed their marriage—and why they started their own club. Tanya and Ashley Marum, from Leeds, married in 2019 and soon began exploring Tanya’s bisexuality together. At first, they met women at local clubs but later found the scene was mostly couple-based.

Struggling to find partners they liked, the pair launched their own events business. Now, more than 300 people attend their gatherings, with applications handled online. Tanya said, “It’s strengthened our relationship emotionally and sexually. It’s such an accepting community.”

Ashley explained they created ground rules for members, including one about appearance. “We want people who look after themselves. It helps everyone feel comfortable,” he said. The couple insists it’s not just about intimacy but also about fun, trust, and honesty.

They believe the lifestyle has made their bond stronger. “Our trust has increased by swinging. We understand each other more than ever,” Ashley added.

Their story raises questions about modern relationships and how couples find happiness in unconventional ways.