A mother has sparked a heated debate online after revealing that her husband booked himself a business-class seat on a 14-hour flight while leaving her and their two-year-old in economy — despite promising otherwise.

A Long-Haul Trip Starts with a Broken Promise

The woman shared her story on the parenting forum Mumsnet. She explained that her husband’s company was flying him business class for a week-long work trip and encouraged her and their toddler to join him for a holiday. She agreed only on one condition: she and their son would fly premium economy so she could manage the long overnight journey more comfortably.

Her husband told her he booked the upgrade. Six weeks later, she discovered he had reserved the cheapest economy seats available — with no option to select or upgrade. By the time she called the airline, premium seats were sold out or available only at an extra £2,000.

Mother and Toddler Assigned Awkward Seats

When check-in opened, she learned she couldn’t select new seats and had been placed in the middle and aisle — not ideal for a night flight with a small child. Meanwhile, her husband would enjoy a fully reclining seat, quiet cabin, and extra space.

Online Reaction: “Don’t Go”

Forum users were stunned. Many called his actions disrespectful, selfish, and concerning for the marriage. Some advised her not to travel at all. Others suggested swapping seats mid-flight or insisting he take the toddler for part of the journey.

The mother admitted she felt angry and betrayed — and unsure how to handle the long trip ahead.