Sometimes people discover a word that finally helps them understand themselves. That is what many are feeling as a new identity, called symbiosual, becomes more widely discussed. The term describes a unique kind of attraction that focuses not on individuals, but on the connection shared between couples.
Researchers say symbiosual people are drawn to the energy and bond within an established relationship. They may find married couples or long-term partners appealing—not because of gender, but because of the warmth, closeness, and emotional flow between them. For some, it’s the harmony of the couple that feels magnetic.
The turning point in recent studies came when researchers noticed how many participants described this experience. Nearly 150 people said they were attracted to the dynamic between partners rather than either person alone. Some admired the couple’s stability, while others felt inspired by how the pair expressed love or balanced roles.

Experts say symbiosuality is different from being bisexual, pansexual, or interested in open relationships. It’s not about wanting multiple partners. Instead, it’s about appreciating the strength and energy people create together. One respondent described it as “feeding off their connection,” finding comfort in the couple’s shared rhythm.
Symbiosual individuals come from all ages, genders, and backgrounds. Researchers hope the term will help people feel understood and give language to something they’ve sensed for years. Many say having the right word brings relief, clarity, and even pride.
As conversations about identity grow, one thing becomes clear: people feel more at peace when they can finally name their experience. And sometimes, that simple understanding can open the door to a deeper sense of self.