A woman from Newcastle, U.K., is speaking out after receiving harsh comments online about how she handled a breakup. Taila Maddison, an adult content creator, shared in a video that she spent time dating several people shortly after the relationship ended. When a social-media influencer reposted her video with strong criticism, the reaction quickly became negative and personal.

Maddison said she is used to some judgment because of her work, but this situation felt especially hurtful. Being called insulting names and having people make assumptions about her future was disappointing, she explained.

She also pointed out a double standard. In her view, if a man shared the same experience, he would likely face far less criticism—and might even receive praise. Many people online agreed, noting that society often treats men and women differently when it comes to dating and relationships.

Maddison mentioned that even her ex-partner found the reaction exaggerated. Despite the negativity, she says she intends to live her life without letting online comments define her.

Her experience reflects findings from research: men with multiple partners are often more socially accepted, while women tend to face unfair judgment for similar choices. Maddison’s situation is one more example of how these attitudes continue today.