An Australian boxer is opening up about why she and her partner choose ethical non-monogamy, a relationship style that lets them remain committed while still being free to sleep with other people. Middleweight fighter Shannon Philp explained that the rising cost of training, travel, and medical expenses pushed her to join OnlyFans so she could continue her boxing career. When money became tight, she and her boyfriend, Lyndon, had an honest discussion about how to move forward—both financially and personally.

During those conversations, they agreed to explore ethical non-monogamy. Shannon says the decision has actually strengthened their relationship. They still consider themselves a loving couple, but they allow each other sexual freedom within clearly defined boundaries. As long as those boundaries are respected, she says, trust remains intact.

ENM differs from other polyamorous setups because the emotional partnership stays between the two main partners. Supporters say it works when communication is open and jealousy is handled in a healthy, straightforward way.

Other couples share similar experiences. Jem and Daz Jones, featured on a relationship reality series, said ENM helped them refresh their long-term marriage after their intimacy became routine. They live what looks like a typical family life but have adjusted the expectations around monogamy to suit their needs.

While this relationship style isn’t for everyone, Shannon and others say it offers honesty, autonomy, and a stronger connection. For couples who choose it, ethical non-monogamy can provide a workable balance between commitment and personal freedom.