An Australian woman feels devastated after her husband reacted with disgust when she accidentally passed gas.
A Long Secret
Emma and Rob have been together for nine years. Rob hates when women burp or fart in public. Emma always made an effort to hide these habits. However, she accidentally “let one rip” while falling asleep. She had eaten too much pizza before the incident.
Rob’s Harsh Reaction
Rob looked at his wife with a horrified expression. He told her that she was being revolting. Later, he shared his blunt view on the matter. “Farting is the most unladylike thing a woman can do, especially in front of her husband,” Rob said to Emma. Now, he constantly reminds her how distasteful he finds it.
Different Expert Views
Therapist Gary Brown says passing gas shows a healthy connection. It means a couple feels comfortable with each other. Psychologist Shannon Chavez says it can even lead to better sex. Normalization helps people feel less shame about their bodies. Still, Emma issued a groveling apology the next morning.
Friends Are Outraged
Emma’s friends cannot believe Rob is so upset. They call his behavior unfair for a natural bodily function. Emma feels conflicted because she thinks Rob is otherwise wonderful. She knows farting is normal but respects her husband’s feelings. Finally, she remains embarrassed by his ongoing disappointment.