Kaly Miller, 52, is a professional surrogate partner who helps individuals overcome intimacy issues and sexual anxieties. Unlike traditional talk therapy, her approach is hands-on. She teaches clients physical connection, ranging from basic skills like kissing to full sexual intimacy.
The core goal of her work is to help people move past deep-seated insecurities. Her clients often struggle with shyness or performance anxiety. By modeling healthy intimacy, she provides a safe environment for them to learn and gain confidence.
Miller transitioned from sports massage to surrogate work in her late 30s. Her conviction was sealed by her first client, a man in his 60s. He told her he did not want to die without knowing what love felt like. A year later, he was in a successful relationship, proving the impact of her work.
Despite the personal nature of the job, Miller views herself as a “mirror” rather than a romantic partner. She remains highly disciplined, starting her day with personal practice to separate her private life from her professional role.
While the career is controversial, Miller’s family remains supportive. She finds fulfillment in the long-term success of her 400+ clients, many of whom have gone on to get married and start families. She is currently documenting these experiences in an upcoming book.