John and Mary favored their son, Junior, over their daughter, Lydia, believing boys were more important. Lydia was often ignored unless chores were involved. When she needed new clothes, her mother refused, saying, “Your brother just got a new Playstation console… you’ll have to manage.”

Lydia found peace staying with her grandfather during the summers while Junior attended music camp. Eventually, Lydia decided to live with her grandfather permanently, and her parents barely contacted her. When her grandfather passed, he left her a large inheritance, making her wealthy.

Years later, Lydia’s parents, who had distanced themselves, reached out for help after Junior stole money and disappeared. Her mother said, “Your brother… requested a new apartment. Be a good older sister and send money.”

Despite their past, Lydia forgave them and sent some money but made it clear she wouldn’t help again. She reminded them, “Your sins will never be forgotten.”

Lessons: favoritism harms families, and forgiveness, though difficult, is powerful. Lydia chose to forgive, but she didn’t allow herself to be used again.