Woman Embraces Abros**ual Identity After 30 Years

Discovering one’s true identity can be a lifelong journey, especially when society offers little understanding. For journalist Emma Flint, it took three decades to realize she is abrosual—a term describing fluid sual attraction.

“When I tell people I’m abros**ual, I’m often met with confusion,” Flint shared in a Metro article. She recalled growing up in the 1990s when LGBTQ+ identities were largely boxed into rigid categories. “I grew up feeling lost. It wasn’t that I didn’t know myself; it was that my identity kept shifting in ways I didn’t know how to explain.”

A turning point came in 2020 when Flint discovered an Instagram post by Zoe Stoller, a social media educator. “It was like a light bulb went off,” she said, finally finding a term that described her experience.

Though coming out hasn’t been easy, Flint has found support from loved ones willing to educate themselves. She emphasizes that her fluidity doesn’t affect her ability to love. “I’m attracted to the person, not their gender.” Now, she embraces her identity, stating, “What matters most is that it makes sense to me—and that’s enough.”