Some losses hit so deeply that even simple memories can feel overwhelming. That is how Erika Kirk describes the moment her life changed forever. When her husband, Charlie Kirk, was killed at a campus event in September, her heart went straight to the future they had planned together.

During a live interview with Megyn Kelly, Erika shared that she and Charlie had hoped for a big family. They already had two young children, but dreamed of having four. In the quiet hours after the shooting, she found herself praying she might be pregnant, hoping for one last blessing to hold onto.

The turning point came when she explained how strong that longing felt. She told Kelly that starting a family had been a shared joy, something she and Charlie often talked about. Losing him made those dreams feel even more precious, and even more painful.

Erika also offered heartfelt advice to young couples. She encouraged them not to delay building a family if it’s something they truly want. Careers and routines can wait, she said, but children grow quickly, and those early years can never be reclaimed.

Despite her grief, Erika expressed deep gratitude for her two little ones. She knows they will one day understand their father’s impact and the love he had for them. For now, they remain her comfort as she continues to navigate life without him.

Her words remind us how love, loss, and hope often rest side by side — and how the dreams we share with someone can stay alive long after they’re gone.