Redefining Relationships
Emma Watson, known for Harry Potter, introduced ‘self-partnered’ in a 2019 British Vogue interview. She explained, “I never believed the whole ‘I’m happy single’ spiel… It took me a long time, but I’m very happy [being single]. I call it being self-partnered.” She clarified that she still dates but is “not [dating] one specific person.”
A New Perspective
Watson avoids dating apps, saying, “My friends are really good at setting me up… Some of my best friends are people I got set up on a date with and it didn’t work out.” Psychologist Carla Marie Manly supports the idea, stating, “A self-partnered person… does not feel compelled to seek fulfillment through another person.”
Challenging Labels
Watson joins stars like Gwyneth Paltrow, who introduced ‘conscious uncoupling.’ Therapist Travis McNulty notes, “There’s a shift in renaming relationships,” as younger generations prioritize independence.
Embracing Self-Partnership
Manly advises, “It’s important to feel at ease alone.” Activities like dining solo or volunteering can boost confidence and independence.
