Madison, your story is a poignant reminder of the complexities and emotional challenges in relationships, especially those involving stepchildren. It sounds like you did everything you could to support and care for Will and his children, even at the cost of your own well-being.

Leaving an unhealthy relationship is never easy, especially when children are involved. It’s clear that your presence had a lasting, positive impact on Tamara and Nick, despite the difficult circumstances. Their reaching out to you years later shows the deep impression you left on their lives, affirming that your efforts were not in vain.

In your situation, prioritizing your mental and emotional health was crucial. It’s understandable to question the decision to leave, but it seems it was necessary for your well-being. The fact that Tamara and Nick hold you in such high regard suggests that you made a significant difference in their lives, even if it meant stepping away from the marriage.

As for whether it was the right decision, it’s evident that your well-being and the positive influence you had on the children ultimately mattered. Your story highlights the importance of self-care and the profound impact that kindness and care can have, even in the most challenging situations.