A 25-year-old woman shared on Reddit her engagement to her high school sweetheart. Despite getting along with most of his family, she has issues with his mother, who nags her for not having a biological grandchild. Her fiancé continuously reminds his mother that she already has a grandchild through adoption.

The woman took in her late best friend’s daughter, Ellie (5), as her own. Ellie is set to be the flower girl at their wedding, a role she loves. However, her future mother-in-law rejects Ellie, making hurtful comments like, “I simply don’t understand why an adopted child should take the place of a true blood.”

Tensions escalated when the future MIL yelled at Ellie and held her precious teddy bear. The woman confronted her, leading to harsh words. She told her future MIL, “if she has so much problem with her being the flower girl, she might as well skip the wedding and just join us for the reception.”

Reddit users supported the woman’s decision, validating her feelings. Many believe the MIL is wrong and should apologize. The situation remains tense, with the woman wondering if she handled it correctly.