A 70-year-old grandmother says her life changed for the better after leaving her husband of 34 years and starting over on her own. After the separation, she moved from a quiet rural life to London and decided to try dating apps for the first time.
Tina Pemberton says online dating helped her feel confident, active, and excited about life again. She dates regularly, meets new people, and enjoys socialising in ways she never expected at this stage of her life. She says she feels happier, more energetic, and more positive than she did years ago.
One of the biggest surprises for her has been rediscovering intimacy later in life. She says age has not reduced her enjoyment or confidence, and believes women should not feel embarrassed or “invisible” as they get older. For her, feeling desired and connected has boosted both her mood and self-esteem.
She is now open about her experiences because she wants to challenge the idea that older women should stop dating or enjoying relationships. She believes society unfairly dismisses women once they reach a certain age, especially when it comes to love and attraction.
Her message to other women is simple: do not let age decide how you live. She encourages older women to stay curious, stay social, and follow what makes them feel alive—on their own terms.