A woman shared on Reddit her frustrations with her stepdaughter, Trudi. The woman married Trudi’s father when Trudi was 22, and she is now 36. The woman has two kids, 18 and 20, who are in college. From the start, her relationship with Trudi was rocky. Trudi faced financial issues and moved in with her father and stepmother.

Trudi, her husband, and their kids moved into the stepmother’s old apartment with a rent-free agreement. However, Trudi and her kids did not clean up after themselves. “My son-in-law is the only one who makes an effort,” said the stepmother, while Trudi claimed, “I live in her father’s house, so I don’t get to tell her what to do.”

Fed up, the stepmother moved into the apartment and refused to let Trudi stay there. Trudi threatened legal action but had no grounds as she hadn’t paid a deposit. The stepmother enjoyed the peace and cleanliness of the apartment, but her husband pleaded for a return to their original arrangement. When the stepmother visited the house, she found it filthy, saying, “It was disgusting. It didn’t smell good.”

The stepmother insisted she would only return if Trudi moved out. Her husband, retired and attached to the home, refused. Commenters sided with the stepmother, blaming the husband for enabling his daughter’s behavior. Many empathized with the son-in-law, advising the stepmother to stay in her apartment until her husband could no longer tolerate the situation.