When Georgina Fuller heard the term Pathological Demand Avoidance, she had no idea how much it would reshape her life.
Her son Eddie, now 13, was diagnosed with autism and PDA — a rare profile where even simple requests, like “put on your shoes,” can cause deep anxiety. “It’s not stubbornness,” Georgina says softly. “It’s fear — fear of losing control.”
Daily routines became delicate balancing acts. Eddie couldn’t stand loud noises or certain textures. Even breakfast was a challenge — milk had to be served in a glass, not poured over cereal. “If I push too hard, it leads to tears or meltdowns,” she admits. “So I’ve learned to meet him where he is.”
Experts say PDA isn’t defiance — it’s distress. Children like Eddie crave safety, not discipline. Gentle choices, patience, and humor can make all the difference.
As Georgina reflects, “It’s not bad parenting. It’s a new way of loving.” Her story reminds every parent: understanding can change everything.
