When a 28-year-old husband turned to the internet for advice, he never expected his confession to divide thousands.

For two years, he says, his wife had refused to be intimate. The reason was heartbreaking — she had learned she could no longer have children. “Kids were the only reason she wanted sex,” he explained quietly. But the emotional distance grew unbearable. After failed counseling and countless arguments, she finally scrawled a message across his letter of concern: “Go get it elsewhere.”

So, he did. And when she later found out, everything fell apart. “She called it cheating,” he wrote, “and maybe it is. But I was just doing what she told me.” His story quickly went viral, sparking fierce debate. Some called him selfish, others saw a man desperate for love. “You’re too young to live like this,” one commenter said. Another wrote simply, “You both deserve peace.”

He insists he still loves her — but love, he admits, might not be enough anymore. “I’m only 28,” he said softly. “I can’t live the rest of my life feeling invisible.”

Because sometimes, even love can’t survive silence.