The Desire Riviera Maya Resort in Mexico has become one of the world’s most popular swingers destinations. Known as a “real life porno” resort, it offers luxury, privacy, and strict rules for guests.

The adults-only, couples-only venue is clothing optional, but there are limits. Cover-ups are required in restaurants, the lobby, and some public areas. Intimacy is only allowed in designated spaces like the Playroom and Jacuzzi Lounge. Photos are restricted to private rooms, and smoking is only permitted in set areas.

Despite the rules, visitors say the atmosphere is unique. One couple described it as “the future of what the lifestyle should be about.” Another guest admitted it was overwhelming at first, explaining, “This place is sexual 24/7… it’s not for everyone.”

For some, it’s a dream vacation offering freedom and excitement. For others, the intensity can feel like too much. Either way, the resort has sparked conversations about how swinging holidays are becoming more mainstream.

Would you ever visit a place like this—or is it simply too extreme?