Emma Flint recently came out as abros**ual after 30 years of self-discovery. In a piece for Metro, she shared her journey of understanding her identity, despite societal misconceptions.

“When I tell people I’m abros**ual, I’m often met with confusion,” Flint wrote. “Questions like, ‘Is this even a real label?’ or ‘Why can’t you just pick one?’ are unfortunately common.”

Growing up in the 1990s, Flint struggled to define her feelings within rigid sual orientation labels. “I grew up feeling lost,” she said. “It wasn’t that I didn’t know myself; it was that my identity kept shifting in ways I didn’t know how to explain.” A turning point came in 2020 when she discovered the term abrosuality through an Instagram post. “It was like a light bulb went off,” she recalled.

Flint’s identity means her attraction fluctuates over time. “It wasn’t indecisiveness or confusion,” she emphasized. “It was simply how my identity naturally evolves.” While some have dismissed her identity, she’s found support among loved ones willing to learn.

Despite challenges, Flint remains confident in her identity. “I’m excited to embrace this fluidity and see where it takes me,” she concluded. “What matters most is that it makes sense to me – and that’s enough.”