Hi, I’m Ella. My 19-year-old daughter, Rose, has been with her boyfriend Nathan, 20, for a year. Initially, I had reservations about Nathan, but he turned out to be a decent guy, and I warmed up to him.

One day, Rose came to me and said, “Mom, I have to tell you something, but you need to promise me that you won’t be upset.” I felt uneasy but replied, “What is it, baby? You know you can tell me anything.” She then revealed, “I am pregnant with Nathan’s baby. You’re going to be a grandmother.” I was shocked but tried to be supportive.

As time passed, I became excited about the baby and even allowed Rose and Nathan to stay with me. We decorated a nursery together, and things seemed to be going well. However, one afternoon, I came home early and found Rose in her lingerie with another man. Devastated, I confronted her, and she pleaded, “Please, don’t tell Nathan.”

I felt betrayed and told Rose, “You made your choice. Now, you must leave.” She cried, “I have nowhere to go and no money, Mom! Please, I’m scared!” Despite my heartbreak, I stood firm.

Now, I wonder if my decision was too harsh. Should I tell Nathan the truth? Was I protecting our family’s integrity or acting out of hurt?