Expert Says Parents Should Ask Babies For Permission Before Changing Their Nappies
ArchiveFirst published March 1, 2025. It may not reflect later developments.
Childcare expert Deanne Carson sparked controversy by suggesting parents ask their babies for permission before changing their nappies. This idea has left people divided.
Some argue that babies cannot communicate consent verbally and delaying a nappy change could be neglectful. One critic questions, “Are you just going to let them walk/lay around in pee and poo?”
Carson defends her stance, emphasizing the importance of consent, even with infants. She suggests asking, “I’m going to change your nappy now, is that OK?” while acknowledging babies can’t verbally respond. Instead, she believes consent can be indicated through body language.
Responding to backlash, Carson defends her approach, highlighting its role in abuse prevention. She urges understanding rather than ridicule, emphasizing the importance of bodily autonomy from infancy.
